Unleash Career Passion

Designed for Unfulfilled Achievers

Rediscover professional enthusiasm; transform doubt into dynamic careers.

Clarity & Vision Discovery

Unearth your true aspirations and refine your career goals to build a solid path toward meaningful achievement. Through guided reflection and purposeful conversations, we’ll uncover what genuinely ignites your passion and create a clear roadmap to pursue it with confidence.

Confidence Building Journey

Reclaim your self-assurance with strategies designed to eliminate doubt and strengthen your belief in your abilities. This journey empowers you to step into your professional life with boldness and clarity, ready to make decisive moves and embrace new opportunities.

Authentic Alignment Pathway

Create tailored strategies that harmonize your career with your core values and true self. This holistic approach ensures that every step forward not only enhances your professional growth but also deepens your personal fulfillment and aligns with your integrity.

About Me

I'm Brenda Lilly, dedicated to helping women rediscover purpose and passion in both their careers and personal lives. My mission is to guide you towards holistic transformation, focusing on your whole self. With over 20 years of experience leading projects and driving transformation across various industries, I bring a unique blend of skills to my coaching practice. My journey, shaped by resilience and a desire to uplift others, began with witnessing the struggles of women in my family. This inspired me to empower myself and now, to empower others like you.

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So the lightness is unspeakable…Gratitude is boundless and cannot be valued by any wealth.… The path taken together brought priceless experience and ignited hope… opened the soul and showed the way… The way to a new life, a life that I can create myself with the help of the Universe

Sandra W.

Health Coach

So the lightness is unspeakable…Gratitude is boundless and cannot be valued by any wealth.… The path taken together brought priceless experience and ignited hope… opened the soul and showed the way… The way to a new life, a life that I can create myself with the help of the Universe

Sandra W.

Health Coach

I returned to my inner axis in the fastest and the most effective way. I’ve got strong and indisputable realizations about my own responsibility and reached a state of inner peace and raised my self-esteem. Now I know my life’s mission and have the purpose of life..

Mark H.

Leadership Coach

I returned to my inner axis in the fastest and the most effective way. I’ve got strong and indisputable realizations about my own responsibility and reached a state of inner peace and raised my self-esteem. Now I know my life’s mission and have the purpose of life..

Mark H.

Leadership Coach

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Hear From My Clients

What sets Brenda apart is her exceptional active listening skills. She doesn't just hear words; she listens with intent, picking up on nuances and underlying concerns. This ability allows her to ask insightful questions that often lead to profound self-discovery. Brenda's critical thinking and planning skills are invaluable. She has a knack for breaking down complex issues into manageable parts, helping develop clear, actionable strategies for personal and professional growth. One of the most valuable aspects of our relationship is Brenda's ability to offer a fresh perspective. Our conversations are always engaging, and I find myself considering angles I hadn't thought of before. This has been instrumental in broadening my horizons and improving my decision-making process. Beyond those skills, Brenda has a remarkable talent for community building. She has welcomed me and my partner into a network of supportive individuals who genuinely want to see each other succeed. This sense of belonging and mutual support has added immeasurable value to my life. If you're looking for a coach who combines empathy with critical thinking, active listening with fresh perspectives, and individual growth with community building, I highly recommend Brenda. Her unique approach to coaching is designed to not just help you achieve your goals – she works to enrich your entire life journey."

Alicia B.

"Working with Brenda as my coach has been a transformative experience. Her exceptional listening skills create a safe and supportive environment where I feel truly heard and understood. What sets Brenda apart is her ability to ask insightful questions that guide me towards my own solutions and realizations. Brenda's superb research skills and meticulous attention to detail ensure that our sessions are always well-prepared and tailored to my specific needs. She has an impressive knowledge base across various aspects of personal and professional development, which adds significant value to our coaching relationship. As a coach, Brenda demonstrates remarkable resilience and tenacity. Her unwavering commitment to my growth pushes me to overcome challenges and strive for excellence. Her empathetic approach combined with a strong work ethic creates a perfect balance of support and motivation. What I appreciate most about Brenda is her ability to bring lightness and humor to our sessions while maintaining professionalism. She has a knack for making even the most daunting tasks seem manageable and often enjoyable. Brenda's coaching style is direct and honest, always keeping me accountable to my goals. Her eagerness to help and her availability during crucial moments have been invaluable to my progress."

M. Wilson

"Working with Brenda as my coach has been an incredibly uplifting experience. Her joyful personality and positive energy create an atmosphere of warmth and support that makes every session truly inspiring. What sets Brenda apart as a coach is her remarkable ability to listen without judgment. She provides a safe space where I feel comfortable sharing my thoughts and challenges, knowing I'll be met with understanding and empathy. Her giving nature shines through in every interaction, making me feel valued and supported throughout my journey. Brenda's coaching style is a perfect blend of encouragement and honesty. She has an uncanny ability to uplift my spirits with her radiant smile while also 'telling it like it is' when necessary. This genuine approach has been instrumental in my personal and professional growth. I've come to rely on Brenda not just for advice and information, but also as a guiding light in my life. She's like a personal angel, helping me stay on track and providing invaluable guidance when I need it most. What's truly remarkable is her openness to feedback – she's always striving to improve our coaching relationship, which only adds to her effectiveness as a coach. If you're looking for a coach who can inspire you, challenge you, and support you with unwavering positivity, I wholeheartedly recommend Brenda. Her unique combination of joyful energy, deep listening skills, and genuine care make her an exceptional coach who can truly transform your life."

Alice D.

“Working with Brenda has truly transformed my professional journey. Her compassion and genuine care create a supportive environment where I feel my growth is not just possible, but inevitable. Brenda has a remarkable ability to offer fresh perspectives and provide practical resources that have helped me navigate challenges with newfound confidence. As a woman of color, I deeply appreciate her understanding and shared experiences, which have added significant depth to our coaching sessions. If you’re looking for a coach who combines empathy with actionable strategies, I wholeheartedly recommend Brenda. She has empowered me to become the best version of myself.”

Anna L., Washington, DC

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From Successful to Fulfilled

From Successful to Fulfilled: Navigating Career Transitions in Your 40s and 50s

July 30, 20247 min read

When you hit your 40s and 50s, it's common to take stock of your career and wonder if you're truly fulfilled. You might think about making a change to align your work more closely with your passions and beliefs. 

It can be scary but exciting to imagine a new career path that brings you genuine happiness and a deeper sense of purpose. It's a chance to begin anew, doing something that truly speaks to you.

In this blog, we’ll explore the key strategies for navigating this significant career shift.

 The Midlife Career Crossroad

It's typical to feel unsure about your career choices as you reach your 40s and 50s — it's a big turning point. Many people reevaluate their goals and priorities and wonder if they're on the right path. 

This is a great time to think about what matters to you and what you want to achieve. It's okay to want more fulfillment and meaning in your work. 

This midlife career crossroad can be scary, but it's a chance for massive growth and positive change. Recognizing your feelings and actively seeking out your passions can help you reset with purpose and clarity.

Common Path of Career Change in Midlife

Making a midlife career change often starts with some deep thinking about your current life and what you want next. It's about assessing your skills and values to pinpoint what's missing and what you'd like to pursue. 

Then, it's time to research and network to learn about potential new paths. Reach out to people in fields that interest you — their insights can help a lot. 

Having a mentor who's been through a midlife career change can be a great support. You might need to update your resume and gain new qualifications to enter your new field, but all this work will be worth it in the end.

Embracing these common paths can lead to a more fulfilling career change in midlife. Now, let's delve into how these transitions specifically impact professionals seeking greater fulfillment and purpose.

 Midlife Career Transitions for the Fulfilled Professional

Midlife career transitions represent a significant period of change and opportunity for many professionals. This stage of life often prompts a reassessment of career goals, values, and aspirations, leading to a shift from simply achieving success to seeking deeper fulfillment. Here’s an in-depth look at what midlife career transitions entail for a fulfilled professional:

1. Identifying Core Values and Passions:

Identifying your personal and professional passions is a key part of career planning, especially when you're considering a change in your 40s or 50s. It's important to understand what truly makes you happy and fulfilled. Take some time to think about the activities and causes that excite you. 

To discover your core values, try this simple exercise: Set aside 30 minutes of quiet time. Reflect on moments in your life when you felt most proud, fulfilled, or energized. Write these experiences down. Then, identify the common themes or principles underlying these moments. 

For example, if you felt great after volunteering, "helping others" might be a core value. If you were energized after solving a complex problem at work, "intellectual challenge" could be important to you. Aim to narrow your list down to 5-7 core values.

These will serve as your personal compass, guiding your career decisions and helping you find more fulfilling work.

2. Exploring New Career Paths:

If you're feeling unfulfilled, thinking about exploring new career paths can be exciting and energizing. A great way to begin is by considering your passions and skills and looking into different industries or roles. 

Network and chat with professionals already in these roles to learn more about the work and decide if it's a real fit for you. Research carefully, and dip your toe in the water by volunteering or doing part-time work to see if it's a good match. 

Also, keep learning new skills and stay up to date with the latest trends by taking courses or workshops. This will help you feel prepared and ready to take on new challenges.

3. Investing in Skill Development:

To succeed in a midlife career shift, skill development is vital. First, figure out what skills are needed in your new field and honestly assess your current abilities. 

You can upskill by taking courses, workshops, or online classes. Websites like Coursera or industry-specific platforms have a wealth of knowledge. Networking and mentorship programs are also a great way to understand the latest must-have skills. 

Volunteering or doing freelance work will give you useful, hands-on experience and could lead to new connections and opportunities.

4. Developing a Transition Plan:

A successful midlife career shift starts with a careful plan. Begin by understanding your skills, interests, and desired career path. Work out any skills you'll need to acquire and set reachable goals. 

Research different roles and industries, thinking about factors like job prospects and work-life balance. Then, create a timeline, breaking down your goals into smaller steps. 

Network, update your resume, and be ready to adapt and learn as you go. Change takes time, so be kind to yourself and celebrate your progress. With a solid plan, you'll confidently embark on this exciting new chapter.

5. Managing Emotional and Psychological Aspects:

When you're making a midlife career change, it's crucial to look after your emotional and mental health. It's typical to feel a mix of emotions — excitement, stress, and sadness — so acknowledge and accept these feelings as normal. 

Take care of yourself by doing things you enjoy and lower your stress. Reach out to your support network or seek professional support if you need it. A positive attitude can make a huge difference, so try to focus on the chances this change brings. 

Self-reflection is key — understand your values, strengths, and what you aspire to achieve. Keeping these in mind helps you stay on track during this transition.

6. Testing the Waters:

When you're thinking about a midlife career shift, it's a great idea to test the waters first. Don't dive into a new career blindly — take small steps to begin with. Chat with people in roles or industries that interest you to get the inside scoop. 

Try out new roles by volunteering or working part-time. You might find some areas suit you better than others. 

Attend events, workshops, or online classes to learn more and meet potential mentors or new connections. Networking events are also a great way to dip your toe in and see what the industry is all about. 

These little steps will help you make an informed decision and feel more confident in your new path.

Conclusion

If you're thinking about changing your career, you've come to the right place! We've talked about some great ways to find new job opportunities and make that transition smooth. It all starts with having a clear idea of what you want and taking small steps towards your goal. 

Don't let any bumps in the road hold you back - just stay determined and open-minded. Networking and reaching out to people can help, and before long, you'll be where you want to be. Your future is exciting, so get going.

FAQs

1. How can I overcome the fear of starting over in my 40s or 50s?

You can overcome the fear of starting over in your 40s or 50s by acknowledging your achievements, embracing change, seeking support from others, setting realistic goals, and staying positive about the opportunities that lie ahead.

2. Is it possible to switch industries without taking a major pay cut?

Yes, it is possible to switch industries without taking a major pay cut. Research transferable skills, network within the new field, and consider starting at a similar level to leverage your experience. It may require patience and persistence.

3. What steps can I take to ensure a successful midlife career transition?

To ensure a successful midlife career transition, start by assessing your skills and passions. Research new industries, network actively, and seek mentorship. Update your resume and LinkedIn profile. Stay resilient and open to new opportunities.

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