Unleash Career Passion

Designed for Unfulfilled Achievers

Rediscover professional enthusiasm; transform doubt into dynamic careers.

Clarity & Vision Discovery

Unearth your true aspirations and refine your career goals to build a solid path toward meaningful achievement. Through guided reflection and purposeful conversations, we’ll uncover what genuinely ignites your passion and create a clear roadmap to pursue it with confidence.

Confidence Building Journey

Reclaim your self-assurance with strategies designed to eliminate doubt and strengthen your belief in your abilities. This journey empowers you to step into your professional life with boldness and clarity, ready to make decisive moves and embrace new opportunities.

Authentic Alignment Pathway

Create tailored strategies that harmonize your career with your core values and true self. This holistic approach ensures that every step forward not only enhances your professional growth but also deepens your personal fulfillment and aligns with your integrity.

About Me

I'm Brenda Lilly, dedicated to helping women rediscover purpose and passion in both their careers and personal lives. My mission is to guide you towards holistic transformation, focusing on your whole self. With over 20 years of experience leading projects and driving transformation across various industries, I bring a unique blend of skills to my coaching practice. My journey, shaped by resilience and a desire to uplift others, began with witnessing the struggles of women in my family. This inspired me to empower myself and now, to empower others like you.

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So the lightness is unspeakable…Gratitude is boundless and cannot be valued by any wealth.… The path taken together brought priceless experience and ignited hope… opened the soul and showed the way… The way to a new life, a life that I can create myself with the help of the Universe

Sandra W.

Health Coach

So the lightness is unspeakable…Gratitude is boundless and cannot be valued by any wealth.… The path taken together brought priceless experience and ignited hope… opened the soul and showed the way… The way to a new life, a life that I can create myself with the help of the Universe

Sandra W.

Health Coach

I returned to my inner axis in the fastest and the most effective way. I’ve got strong and indisputable realizations about my own responsibility and reached a state of inner peace and raised my self-esteem. Now I know my life’s mission and have the purpose of life..

Mark H.

Leadership Coach

I returned to my inner axis in the fastest and the most effective way. I’ve got strong and indisputable realizations about my own responsibility and reached a state of inner peace and raised my self-esteem. Now I know my life’s mission and have the purpose of life..

Mark H.

Leadership Coach

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Hear From My Clients

What sets Brenda apart is her exceptional active listening skills. She doesn't just hear words; she listens with intent, picking up on nuances and underlying concerns. This ability allows her to ask insightful questions that often lead to profound self-discovery. Brenda's critical thinking and planning skills are invaluable. She has a knack for breaking down complex issues into manageable parts, helping develop clear, actionable strategies for personal and professional growth. One of the most valuable aspects of our relationship is Brenda's ability to offer a fresh perspective. Our conversations are always engaging, and I find myself considering angles I hadn't thought of before. This has been instrumental in broadening my horizons and improving my decision-making process. Beyond those skills, Brenda has a remarkable talent for community building. She has welcomed me and my partner into a network of supportive individuals who genuinely want to see each other succeed. This sense of belonging and mutual support has added immeasurable value to my life. If you're looking for a coach who combines empathy with critical thinking, active listening with fresh perspectives, and individual growth with community building, I highly recommend Brenda. Her unique approach to coaching is designed to not just help you achieve your goals – she works to enrich your entire life journey."

Alicia B.

"Working with Brenda as my coach has been a transformative experience. Her exceptional listening skills create a safe and supportive environment where I feel truly heard and understood. What sets Brenda apart is her ability to ask insightful questions that guide me towards my own solutions and realizations. Brenda's superb research skills and meticulous attention to detail ensure that our sessions are always well-prepared and tailored to my specific needs. She has an impressive knowledge base across various aspects of personal and professional development, which adds significant value to our coaching relationship. As a coach, Brenda demonstrates remarkable resilience and tenacity. Her unwavering commitment to my growth pushes me to overcome challenges and strive for excellence. Her empathetic approach combined with a strong work ethic creates a perfect balance of support and motivation. What I appreciate most about Brenda is her ability to bring lightness and humor to our sessions while maintaining professionalism. She has a knack for making even the most daunting tasks seem manageable and often enjoyable. Brenda's coaching style is direct and honest, always keeping me accountable to my goals. Her eagerness to help and her availability during crucial moments have been invaluable to my progress."

M. Wilson

"Working with Brenda as my coach has been an incredibly uplifting experience. Her joyful personality and positive energy create an atmosphere of warmth and support that makes every session truly inspiring. What sets Brenda apart as a coach is her remarkable ability to listen without judgment. She provides a safe space where I feel comfortable sharing my thoughts and challenges, knowing I'll be met with understanding and empathy. Her giving nature shines through in every interaction, making me feel valued and supported throughout my journey. Brenda's coaching style is a perfect blend of encouragement and honesty. She has an uncanny ability to uplift my spirits with her radiant smile while also 'telling it like it is' when necessary. This genuine approach has been instrumental in my personal and professional growth. I've come to rely on Brenda not just for advice and information, but also as a guiding light in my life. She's like a personal angel, helping me stay on track and providing invaluable guidance when I need it most. What's truly remarkable is her openness to feedback – she's always striving to improve our coaching relationship, which only adds to her effectiveness as a coach. If you're looking for a coach who can inspire you, challenge you, and support you with unwavering positivity, I wholeheartedly recommend Brenda. Her unique combination of joyful energy, deep listening skills, and genuine care make her an exceptional coach who can truly transform your life."

Alice D.

“Working with Brenda has truly transformed my professional journey. Her compassion and genuine care create a supportive environment where I feel my growth is not just possible, but inevitable. Brenda has a remarkable ability to offer fresh perspectives and provide practical resources that have helped me navigate challenges with newfound confidence. As a woman of color, I deeply appreciate her understanding and shared experiences, which have added significant depth to our coaching sessions. If you’re looking for a coach who combines empathy with actionable strategies, I wholeheartedly recommend Brenda. She has empowered me to become the best version of myself.”

Anna L., Washington, DC

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The Power of Purpose

The Power of Purpose: Aligning Your Career With Your Authentic Self

July 30, 20247 min read

When was the last time you felt truly connected to your career like your values and passions were in sync with your work? Imagine starting each day with a real sense of purpose, something deeper than just your job. 

Picture yourself doing work that truly represents who you are and brings you fulfillment. It's a powerful feeling that keeps you motivated and satisfied.

In this blog, we will outline actionable steps to help you align your career with your authentic self.

Common Barriers to Aligning Career With Authentic Self

The fear of failing can hold you back from finding a career that suits your authentic self. This fear can be overwhelming, stopping you from making changes or trying new things. 

Societal expectations can also influence your choices, leading you astray from your true passions. You might feel the pressure of following a certain path because of family, friends, or social norms. 

A lack of self-awareness is another issue. If you're not sure of your passions, strengths, and beliefs, it's hard to make sense of what career would suit you best. 

Taking time to think about your values and desires can help you understand yourself better and make a change toward a fulfilling career.

 Benefits of Living a Purpose-Driven Career

A career driven by your purpose gives you a powerful sense of fulfillment and purpose. When your work matches your values, every day is rewarding and meaningful. This deep connection keeps you satisfied and motivated. 

It's a boost for your mental health too, as you feel you're making a positive impact or contributing to a cause you believe in. This fulfillment can reduce stress and bring inner peace. 

If you're passionate about your work, you'll be more productive and creative. You'll likely find yourself more motivated, creative, and productive, willingly going above and beyond because your work isn't just a paycheck—it's a passion. 

Ultimately, a purpose-driven career offers the profound satisfaction of knowing that your professional life genuinely reflects and serves your authentic self, creating a powerful sense of personal and professional harmony.

Now, let's explore the practical steps you can take to align your career with your authentic self and embrace a fulfilling, purpose-driven professional journey.

 Steps to Align Your Career with Your Authentic Self

Aligning your career with your authentic self is a journey toward professional fulfillment and personal satisfaction. It involves a deliberate process of understanding your core values, passions, and strengths, and then shaping your career to reflect these elements. 

Here’s a detailed guide on how aligning your career with your authentic self can transform your professional journey, moving beyond conventional success to achieve profound and lasting fulfillment:

1. Conduct a Self-Assessment:

To find a career that suits your authentic self, begin with some honest self-assessment. Think about your strengths and the skills that come easily to you. What do you enjoy doing, and what makes you feel proud? 

Your personal and professional values are important too, so note down the principles that matter most. What ignites your curiosity and motivates you? 

When you combine these aspects, you can find your true passions and start to picture a career that fits. This self-reflection is a vital first step toward a purpose-driven career that feels right for you.

2. Set Purpose-Driven Career Goals:

After you've assessed yourself, it's time to set some purpose-driven career goals. Think deeply about what's important to you and what you want to achieve that's meaningful. Make sure your goals are built on your values, passions, and strengths. 

Your aims should excite and challenge you, keeping you on track and motivated. Break them down into smaller steps so they feel more manageable. 

Make sure your goals are about more than just external success — they should also fulfill you on a personal level. This keeps your career path in alignment with your authentic self.

3. Evaluate Your Current Career Situation:

Take a good look at your current career to work out how well it suits your authentic self. Is what you do day-to-day a true reflection of who you are? Are you genuinely passionate about it, or is it just something you do? 

Consider whether your skills and strengths are being fully utilized and if your workplace culture and values match your own. How does your job impact your happiness and sense of fulfillment? 

Being honest about your current situation is crucial because it helps you understand how far off (or close) you are to a fulfilling, purpose-driven career. This reflection will steer you toward the changes you need to make.

4. Explore and Research New Opportunities:

To find a career that suits your authentic self, it's time to explore some new opportunities. Think about your passions, the things that matter to you, and the non-negotiable elements of your work life. 

Research different roles and industries — there might be something that really speaks to you. Networking events and online resources can be a great help here. You can also chat with mentors or career experts for guidance. 

Take your time and assess your skills and interests to ensure any new paths you consider are a good match. This exploration phase is an exciting step toward a more fulfilling career.

5. Take Action and Make Adjustments:

You've done the thinking and researching, so now it's time to take action to make a change. Set some clear goals that are meaningful and in line with your passions. 

You can start making small changes right away. This might mean more education, finding a mentor, or applying for new jobs. Be brave and take those first steps. 

As you go, keep an open mind and be ready to adapt and tweak your plans. See challenges as chances to grow, and if something's not quite right, don't be afraid to change direction. Flexibility is key to finding the right fit for your authentic self.

6. Foster Ongoing Reflection and Growth:

To keep your career path in check with your authentic self, make sure you regularly review your progress and seek chances to develop and grow. Constantly assess how your current career suits your values and long-term goals. Think about the tasks that give you energy and those that don't, and adjust accordingly. 

Feedback is a great tool, so value the opinions of mentors and colleagues. Set aside time to think deeply about your experiences, challenges, and achievements. 

Keep learning by attending events, courses, or conferences, and keep an open mind to new ideas. Networking can introduce you to fresh perspectives and potential new directions. 

This ongoing reflection and growth are vital to ensuring your career stays true to your authentic self.

Conclusion

We’ve explored how to align your career with your authentic self — from self-assessment to setting goals and taking action. Now, it’s time to act.

Remember, this journey isn’t about perfection but progress. Start today with one small step towards a career that truly reflects who you are. Whether it’s setting a new goal or exploring new opportunities, every move counts.

Your journey to a more fulfilling professional life starts now. Embrace the journey, take that leap, and watch as your career transforms into something truly fulfilling.

FAQs

1. How can I overcome the fear of change when aligning my career with my authentic self?

You can overcome fear of change by acknowledging it's natural, setting small achievable goals, seeking support, reframing challenges as opportunities, and focusing on the excitement of aligning your career with your authentic self.

2. What role does self-awareness play in finding purpose in my career?

Self-awareness is crucial in finding purpose in your career. By understanding your strengths, values, and passions, you can align your professional path with your authentic self. This clarity will guide you toward fulfillment and success.

3. Can aligning my career with my authentic self lead to financial success?

Aligning your career with your authentic self can indeed lead to financial success. When you pursue work that aligns with your values and passions, you are more likely to excel and find fulfillment, which can translate into financial rewards.

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